My husband constantly accuses me of cheating?

My dear, you have an addict that is nowhere near using a twelve step program. Guys really don't understand women and why they don't need sex the way men think they do. When a woman is not having sex with their husband, the husband figures that it must be because she is getting it somewhere else. I know its wrong and you know its wrong, but your hubby thinks he has it figured out and that's why he's not having sex with you. Now, I am not saying that you two need to have sex, I am just explaining a (some) guys point of view. His actions and abuse should not warrant any affection from you at this time, and none in the immediate future either, but expect the accusations to continue because you are not having sex. I realize that there are tons of comments everyday about someone needing counseling, but in your husband's case, he definitely needs to talk to professionals and correct his toxic behavior. I am not one of the people that will tell you to get a divorce, because I tend to hope for the best, so I am hoping that he gets help and you get the love and caring husband that you deserve. Best wishes.